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Living your soul’s purpose through your relationships

  • Posted on September 26, 2016 at 3:23 pm
Balance On Purpose

Are you following your soul’s highest path and purpose? Well let me ask you – are you living in balance in your relationships? Do they uplift you and inspire you? Or are you still walking a road  well traveled which is not your highest path and purpose? You may have “remembered” or discovered your soul’s purpose as you have moved forward on your own path of evolution. So you have found out more about yourself and what makes you tick creatively. But are you doing those creative ventures day to day? Or are you just thinking about them and doing them now…

How to find and get your Soulmate

  • Posted on March 19, 2016 at 10:18 am

Finding a Soulmate means

  1. Being able to be loved and loving them back in complete balance.
  2. Sharing romantic love so you can have not only a companion for life but physical love and affection in a beautiful way that brings you joy
  3. That life become so much more – more fun, more special than you could ever have imagined without your Soulmate.

Balance On Purpose

It does take work to build a harmony in life with another Soul, BUT not the sort of work that you might immediately think!

It takes work in the sense that you must be ready to meet the person who can be your Soulmate, and be ready to be inspired to live a full life.

AND you must work at being able to let go of old  relationship issues so you can “get into” your Soulmate relationship in that very moment when you meet them!

If you are not ready and haven’t let go of old relationship problems that you have, you won’t make the step into the relationship – why ever not you say? If you have just met the man (or woman) of your dreams what stops us recognising they will be great for us and stops us jumping into the new relationship and adventure?

Big reason #1 (I’ve done this reason a few times myself and know what it feels like!!)

This is being trapped by LOVE. We are kind and spiritual people who love to love and be around love. Being in a love relationship feels great as it is all about LOVE! But what if the relationship is not right for us? Maybe we are lacking in fun. Also it could be we are lacking in kindness from our partner or lacking in genuine affection. As a kind and gentle soul who wants everyone to be happy you will find it so hard to leave a relationship, and we feel as if we have to be in it forever. As if by saying yes I’m in an agreement and now I can never leave it…. even if we are unhappy with lots of parts of our life and with many parts of the relationship. We are not living life how we really want to but we feel we cannot leave the person. In fact we WANT to be in love and we even put all our efforts into making it work. Very exhausting!

Big reason #2  (I have done this to myself too but not anymore)

This is accepting into our life abusive relationships. Maybe physically but very often emotionally and mentally, because we don’t realise that we are accepting abusive because it’s only in the form of words and controlling our feelings and actions instead of suffering physical attack. We accept manipulation of our feelings and actions as par for the course so we do not believe we can be truly that happy in a Soulmate relationship. I was always more unhappy when in a relationship and felt freer when on my own, but I so wanted to build my life with a family that I kept persevering and gradually improved my own view on how relationships should be until I’d worked out I’d been accepting much less than a nice way of being treated by a partner!! In fact I didn’t recognise the Soulmate when I did meet him the first time because I was trapped by love in an unhappy relationship.

 

So here is what NOT TO DO to avoid these problems and attract and grab your Soulmate to you!

 

  • Don’t have indefinite time limits to resolve a relationship issue (or issues!) if you are unhappy.
  • Don’t ignore it if you feel you should be spoken to better, dont say just one more time and accept being made to feel horrible.
  • Don’t pretend you are happy if you lack romance and affection even cuddles and kisses.
  • Don’t accept separate lives! If you are always doing things on your own remember you could be doing them with your soul mate instead and having oodles more fun!

 

If you would like to find out and release the hidden causes of why you accept abusive relationships or go deeply into your past and past lives to resolve why you are stuck in love and can’t find your Soulmate then a Soul realignment* soul purpose reading is perfect for you. Click here for more details!

 

Love and light as always

Jennifer Smith

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Magical living

  • Posted on September 12, 2015 at 3:39 pm

 

Are you living your magical life? What is your own idea of what makes a wonderful existence on Earth? And what are you doing to live that dream and work towards make your life more like your own ideal life?

There are always more stages in life that open up like a book to reveal more magical experiences that YOU love. But these always only start with one small step at a time!

What is it that REALLY gets in the way of us living our dream life?

I would like to share with you my story that starts 5 years ago in 2010 and ends up here with me, my husband and our baby daughter living an alternative lifestyle living life partly in our converted lorry travelling around. Society considers this “abnormal” but for us this life is full of nature, love, fresh air and plenty of new experiences!

Balance On Purpose

In 2010 I was a full time secondary school teacher of science in an inner city school. I wanted to make a change to peoples’ live and help others and being a teacher was something I loved. However it consumed all my time and I spent very little at home or with my family and friends as I was out the door by 6:40am returning by 6pm and working in the evenings and weekends at home too! School holidays was taken up by marking coursework and planning schemes of work so I found I had very little  time for personal development even though I wanted to practise the Reiki healing I had learnt during my teacher training years before! Even family holidays or trips away for the weekend were limited. I really wanted my own loving family life all the time!! I was living the life I was expected to live by society – I had a house and mortgage and a full time job, paid my bills and taxes and felt as though I had little time or money left over for “me” to enjoy.  It wasn’t a case of “not earning enough” but of focusing my life’s energy onto what I thought I had to do as a good and proper citizen!

I was sadly also in a relationship where I wasn’t emotionally supported to make changes happen easily in my life. I yearned to travel again as I had done in University going to Japan for a placement year. BUT instead of feeling as though I could change my job or travel I felt trapped by my job to pay the bills and my partner even said he “wouldn’t allow” me to change jobs as it would be too unsettling!

I didn’t really know it as I felt “quite happy” with my life, but I was in a rut!

Instead of making a change myself consciously, the change I craved happened unconsciously and my partner and I split up. This separation kick started my personal development to be more empowered and make changes happen consciously when I wanted to change. I was able to look at why I picked certain relationships that didn’t make me happy. I was able to change jobs to a life where I had time to learn new skills and spend quality time with my family. I then took the plunge in making changes and made the biggest changes EVER! I moved to a new country and re-trained to be qualified Soul realignment practitioner and I then felt confident enough to finally set up my own business in the healing arts and psychic readings! I had been terrified of having my own business earlier in my life and now I finally had started, knowing I would always have my previous teaching qualifications as a way of earning money if needed.

It was not all plain sailing – big ups and downs letting go of old habits, old thought patterns and recognising when I was “quite happy” but not really fully feeling the zest of life I craved! This process continues and even now I know I need to reassess when I feel myself going through the motions but not really loving what I’m doing.

My biggest changes occurred in France after having my  own Soul realignment reading and revealing why I’d always had unhappy times in love relationships and why I’d always done what society expected of me instead of making my own heart’s desires come true. I was shocked at what I had chosen for myself lifetime after lifetime and continually throughout this life. After making those first changes to travel more and give myself more time to develop and be me I was finally ready to zoom forwards into making my life more magical! Little did I know what was to come!

I met the man who would become my husband in France through my best friend and her partner. We fell madly in love, he was everything I thought was great in a person: funny, kind, sweet, generous, full of stories of exciting things he had done, hardworking and clever and sociable too. He proposed after 6 weeks together and I embarked on my new life and new adventure with him. Within a year of being together we had travelled back to UK, bought a boat, saved for our dream wedding by working hard together, got married and then conceived our first child!

We travelled together in our converted lorry and I tried out living “in the truck” as we  called it and truck3loved it! Living so close to nature and fresh air is completely wonderful. Having a new baby was a bit daunting for me without running water so we live at the moment partly in a beautiful bungalow and partly in the truck. I’m looking forward to visiting our friends in Europe in Holland, France and Spain in the truck and showing our baby girl many sights!

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