I believe the gifts I found easy as a child really balanced me to overcome other difficulties, I feel they can assist you too if you develop them a little bit more – these helped me with my funny ways that I found hard: not understanding others and social situations and overwhelm of others energies all around me.
The whirlwind of others energies make negotiating social situations difficult, and can lead us to shy away from going to places that we would love to go to for fear of the crippling anxiety that leaving the home brings us. This means we might miss out of something super important to us. Or even worse it could lead us into depression if we don’t feel connected to what we love doing if what we love is found out there in the world, this is often our tribe and people but can also be activities that help us be in the flow as there are so many good and positive groups running events we would absolutely love and find fulfilment in.
Many places have inconsistent rules that allow unfair treatment one rule for one and one rule for another, and these double standards mean we lose trust in society. As children we do not know the rules and cultures and we need fair teachers and guides who practise safety, as we do as adults too if we go to an event we need to feel security for everyone young, old, all abilities and everybody included and treated fairly. I really respect and value all those volunteers and workers making safe spaces for our creative freedom, not for corporate profit but for the happiness and enjoyment of all others.
The presence of inconsistent energies all around us leaves us feeling overwhelmed and unsafe and unsure of who to trust and talk to and who could hurt us with bullying of many types. How do we negotiate all these energies to be able to engage in the life we really want to have?
I am sure much has been recorded already on racism, discrimination, bullying etc, all things we worry about and could cause us trauma. Then there are devious manipulators and covertly harmful people to watch out for when protecting ourselves and our children too. Plus the regular stresses of everyday life that affect others and cause them to also be overwhelmed and find interactions hard too. What can be done to help yourself at the personal level? Of course at the level of society we have rules in place for safeguarding and that is a reassurance and peace of mind. But how do we on an individual level cope with all those people who act in negative and positive ways, which we will not know about until after we have had interactions with them?
In my perspective I am promoting the value of developing your intuitive skills which are not troubled by sensory overload or chaotic thinking at the mind level. When we are able to switch into assessing situations from a deeper level this helps us to counter the mind and emotional levels that can get overwhelmed. These types of mindfulness practices are well documented to help everyone. There are many designed for children and adults and many tailored to all types of neurobiology aswell and that is great news!
Why is this so key to develop intuitive skills? A greater sense of self-worth when you connect to the you that is not just your mind or emotions, improving self-confidence. And then also a better understanding of others and being able to connect to other people when you see beyond their mind and emotions and connect to the deeper part of them that makes up their pure positive soul self. Social situations become more manageable when you can shift out of relating to the overwhelming energies in all the peoples minds and emotions and connect on the peaceful level of the soul selves, not that we are prying into other peoples energies that are private it is more that because you have an awareness they exist, then you are able to stay centred in your place of deep calm, it is easier for you and you have more lightness and ease and ability to sense when you need comfort breaks, regulating your own emotions better and enjoying the whole time much more of being out in the world.
The overall message is that connecting to your soul self will help you move beyond the struggles of the physical body, the mind and the emotions: all our human body aspects that can be made more easy to understand in ourselves first and secondly in others to assist our own personal growth into more joy and creativity.
Much love, light and truth everbody
love jenjiivanii xXx XOXO
The inconsistent energies all around us make understanding others very tricky. There are practical ways to make sense of the up and down of others own struggles without getting yourself frustrated and annoyed or even angry and others problems that are going on around you, to manage tricky situations when they may flare up when you are out and about and cannot safely retreat easily. When your own problems are so overwhelming it makes being sensitive to others difficulties harder and this means fairly regularly misunderstandings occur. This will be a key topic to help traverse social situations with grace and help you be out in the world as much as you would like to be and I feel called to write more about that topic soon too!
xXx XOXO